Every healthy man gets aroused several times faster than a woman. For most, a quick glance at the naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people with a kinesthetic type of perception of information from the outside. They need to touch everything, feel it physically, to process it with their brain and accept it. If your partner loves touch and gets turned on the most by it, then he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with an increased tactile need will not refuse to see a beautiful girl, but your arsenal should include stimulating techniques with the hands and other parts of the body!
It is a misconception that only the female half needs foreplay. Men also love affection and don't mind prolonging the pleasure they receive in order to relax physically and psychologically. And on the strong torso there are no less erogenous points than those of beautiful girls. For a quality erotic session, you will need knowledge of sensitive areas, so let's enrich our luggage with seductive techniques together. Today we're going to learn how to excite a man with our hands and we're going to learn how to push all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them properly
Erogenous zones are those areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and influence. Their caresses help to increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only the common male erogenous zones, but also the individual ones for each individual man, which gives you power over the stronger sex. A man just goes crazy when a girl caresses him, as if she is reading his innermost thoughts at that moment! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the area of the penis and scrotum. Most men enjoy having women's hands run through their hair. No less pleasant is such tenderness as the touch of the back of your hand to the cheeks, eyebrows and chin. Stroke his hair with your fingers spread wide so the hair falls between them and run the ends over his face. You can complement the action with gentle kisses on the earlobe. What excites me the most is not the touch of the lips, but the warm breath, which is felt very sharply.
Neck
This part of the body in men is ideal for arousing passion with hands. The most susceptible area is the strip of skin from the earlobes to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and follow with kisses. You can use tongue caresses if your partner responds positively to such stimuli.
The line from the beginning of hair growth down to the interscapular area is the track. The hot rides start here, signaling that the lady will soon go lower and have a "prize". .
vice versa
On the back, to properly excite a man with your hands, you need to touch several points:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder area,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular area,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
These "accumulators" of lust can be caressed with the tips of the fingers, hair, and some girls know how to effectively affect them with their breasts. Men are very excited by the touch of women's nipples on their backs.
For many guys, a hug from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially in the case of a completely naked female body.
If everything is fine with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely obvious provocation - to stroke the sacral back (coccyx area) with your kitty. Just keep in mind that after a few seconds the guy will not be able to hold back his desires, so the seduction with secret techniques will end there. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
By the way, an immobilized blindfolded partner concentrates more on tactile stimuli and therefore experiences sharper sensations. Pay attention to this idea!
Torso
In the front of the body, the most sensual points that instantly respond to caresses are the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen, leading to the peak of male majesty. Please note that men have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you should not pull them with the same intensity. There are people for whom such stimuli will be unpleasant, therefore, dear tigresses and panthers, we purr and listen to the wishes of our seduced object. Many people like it when a girl runs her hands over her chest and stomach while sitting on top.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but a light massage of the central part will help ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. Hands, on the contrary, have several rather sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow, or rather the inner fold of the arm, is a place with increased sensitivity to light touches. More brutal tactics go unanswered. You can move from this place to the wrist with your fingertips back and forth.
- The area between the middle and ring fingers. Many guys react to her touch by associating it with caresses on the penis.
- The inside of the palm and fingertips are also very sensitive to gentle touches from hands, lips and warm breath.
Legs
Do you still think that a man's legs are not involved in arousal and are only needed for support during intercourse? You were very wrong! The legs, it turns out, are a real erogenous crater! Kneading the fingers, gently stroking the heels and feet fills their owner with more than an uplifted mood.
The hollow below the knee is another erogenous zone for arousing a man with arms. Stroking, light touches, pressure turn boys on wildly.
The transition between the torso and thighs is full of nerve endings, which makes it possible to classify this area of the male body as highly erogenous. Stroking the thighs with your fingers can make a man shiver with pleasure.
Anal hole
Many men do not let a woman into this area with a gun because they are worried or afraid of creating an image of a person focused on themselves. And nature has created her very erogenous! Stroking the anus from the outside and inside turns every man on. The main thing is to relax. Gently stroking the anal ring with your fingertips puts the guy in the right mood. If you wish, you can insert your fingers into his ass and feel the most sensitive points there with maximum response to passionate appeals. We already wrote how to do this in an article on how to convince your husband to have strap-on sex - read on.
Dick and scrotum
And the main course is, of course, manhood! Stroking the testicles with hands (pulling, squeezing, feeling), masturbating the penis itself, and touching the skin in the area between the anus and the genitals can lead to gush of ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly caress the penis with your hands to arouse a man
To properly arouse a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that pulling up and down and grinding the foreskin is quite enough for charming sensations. They are very wrong. You need to know how to handle the penis and no less carefully than the female vagina.
Correct grip
There are several basic ways to grab a penis.
- The traditional variant is a fist grip, where the movements can be translational "up-down" or imply a spiral rotation.
- We press the head from above with a thumb, and the rest are located below.
- It is necessary to make a small ring (OK sign) from the thumb and forefinger, connecting them and releasing your fist (see the photo below),
- If you lubricate your hands first, it will be easy to excite the man. The fist in the reverse position (you should see the back of the hand and her thumb pointing towards the woman) should move as if crushing the penis.
Stroke with fingers and hands
In order to improve the sensations of the partner, the woman should take care of the warmth of her hands in advance. Using any technique for gripping the penis, stimulating a man with warm hands, you can quickly achieve orgasm. But you should not overheat the scrotum. There is nothing good about it for the boys' health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman pats the trunk with the phalanges of her fingers. It is better to do this by imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare your partner with waving movements.
A man experiences a special feeling when his member is caressed by the hands of two ladies at the same time. We place the dignity between the palms without bending the fingers. We move up and down slowly and smoothly, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a large amount of foreskin, pull it in a different way: you do not need to go to the base, on the contrary, perform manipulations by pressing on the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone - the head of the penis - is caressed, and due to the fact that caresses are performed indirectly, there is no risk of its deletion. Men with such a structure come brightly from such techniques!
It is important not to forget about stroking the testicles. The impact of simple massage movements will not only provide excitement, but also bring health: you can avoid potency problems in adulthood by regularly stroking and massaging the testicles. Take them in your hands, hold them, squeeze them, pull them slightly to the side or down (slightly! this is not a wrist extender! ), then start massaging the base of the penis in a circular motion and casually touch the testicles.
An unusual caress with a nail plate, which should be drawn along the trunk and along the scrotum, will add piquancy and enhance the effect of the whole process.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to bolder experiments. To continue, the girl must rub her labia on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
Combining the suggested techniques with a high-quality whistle will help you surprise your man and bring him to ecstasy in a few minutes! There really aren't any hard and fast rules about how to properly turn a man on with your hands. To achieve harmony, explore his body centimeter by centimeter and watch his reaction.
A few tips on massage techniques
We have told you how to prepare a man for sexual contact and arouse him as much as possible, but you want to make a signature so that he is hooked completely and irrevocably. Let's try to outwit the potential rivals and find that anchor to put him on as a drug!
- Always soften your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movements. Sliding turns men on.
- Apply pressure, stroking, gently pinching the muscles and don't forget to stop for a few seconds. This greatly inflames the passions.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and gradually work your way down. No need to go straight to the genitals.
- When moving to the perineum, play with clothes or a towel stretched after a shower to create even more arousal. Put your hands in his unbuttoned pants or under a towel, massage your private parts and whisper in his ear how much he turns you on.
- You can maintain a commanding tone and tell him what to do in the next minute. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative in her own hands.
- Combine the caresses with each other. Let the exciting hand massage turn into a wild orgy when the young man no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of lust should wash over him!
- Use your chest. You can caress the penis with two palms and lean the glans against the nipples. Men love to touch their breasts with an erect penis!
And the main tip is to always use the complex Thai technique. When you get down to the basics, pick another very sensitive area and stroke it at the same time. It can be member-anus, member-lower back, member-buttocks, etc. You will notice for yourself what a man responds to more. When he's finished, move to another secondary area and unobtrusively stroke for another 20-30 seconds, as if soothing your partner. It should not be of the most sensitive, so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over - it will become your trick.
To excite a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you do not need to wait for hints or requests from him. As a rule, representatives of the stronger sex are not against giving the initiative in bed to their partner, relying on her playful mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experiments and 100% male arousal.
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